No one wants to be seen by their organization as being second string or mediocre. For many athletes, that is how they are seen every day of their careers. They receive few accolades; the expectations for them are low and they receive few opportunities to change the mind of the people who are in charge. Despite that, many backups perform terrific services to their teams and sacrifice for their team and its success.
Here are a few things that we can learn from backups that can benefit many of us in our career:
1. Complaining doesn’t make things better.
James Michael McAdoo had a successful collegiate basketball career for the University of North Carolina yet he was undrafted by the NBA. He signed a free-agent contract with the Golden State Warriors where he was on 2 championship teams. He was one of the first players at practice, sometimes arriving as much as two hours before the stars on the team. The enthusiasm and motivation that McAdoo provides to the rest of the team was invaluable and showed that no matter where you are in an organization, you matter. Complaining doesn’t change your circumstances. Action does. Attitude does. Giving more of himself helped him become a champion . . . twice.
2. Adapt to the reality of the situation
Austin Romine is a backup catcher for The New York Yankees. A career .220 hitter during his first two years in the major leagues, this year, after a talk with his new incoming manager, Aaron Boone, where he was told that the team expected more of him offensively, Romine is now hitting .339 and allowing Boone to rest his starting catcher periodically.
So many people argue and fight with the reality of their situation, rather than making the decision to do whatever it takes.
3. Losers make excuses.
I was not a star but learned watching from the bench how players on our teams in The Bronx who tried to explain away defeat would blame the referees or blame luck, but never themselves. They never thought about the hangover they had from being out the night before or the fact that they spent much of their time at practice posing for their girlfriends, instead of practicing hard. They smoked cigarettes and wondered why they were winded. Blame is very easy to assign when it is being assigned to someone else. The fact is the real blame should have been placed squarely upon themselves. We make choices that have consequences. We would prefer to blame others when, so often, we are at fault.
4. You have to do it when it counts.
Mike Riordan was a bench player for the New York Knicks in the 1960’s. Early in his career, he was so extraneous to the team’s success that in his first season, the coach only sent him into a game to foul a player on the other team so the Knicks would get the ball back. Riordan said, “Sure, it’s been a great year but if we can’t do it all over again in the playoffs, what will it mean?” It is so important to deliver at the important moments, yet, too often, people prefer to think that trying was good enough. Winners find the way to win.
5. You have to outperform the starter to get out there.
There is a reason why someone is being given opportunities and not you. It isn’t luck or “politics” or that they are being paid more than you. They are out there being given the opportunity to perform because they have convinced someone that they can deliver. If they can’t, their boss will be fired and they will probably be traded or cut (fired). If you want the opportunity, you have to put in the effort and outperform the person you want to replace AND make sure your manager/coach/boss knows it.
6. The big money goes to starters.
To be professionally successful, you have to get in the game and make your mark on it. There may be someone ahead of you, but you can’t make your mark on the bench. When given an opportunity, you have to outperform them.
In 1923, The Yankees’ starting first baseman, Wally Pipp, asked out of a game because he was having vision problems because he had been hit in the head by a ball during batting practice. Replaced by a backup first baseman, Lou Gehrig, Pipp never started another game for the Yankees. Gehrig started 2130 consecutive games after that.
Did Gehrig complain? No. He prepared and was ready when he got the opportunity and, until poor health got the best of him, never relinquished the opportunity he had.
Stop complaining and find the way to win.
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